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Potty training is an important step in your child’s growth, but it can also cause a lot of uncertainty. When should you begin? How can you tell if your child is prepared? Many parents wait for their child to exhibit all the typical signs of readiness, believing this will ensure success.
This guide will delve into the true meaning of potty training readiness, why expecting all the “perfect” signs may not be practical, and how you can approach the process with assurance and support.
The Myth of “Perfect” Readiness Signs
Many parents concentrate on a list of readiness indicators before initiating potty training. Although these indicators can be beneficial, depending solely on them might result in delaying too much. The reality is that children may not exhibit every readiness sign at the same time. Waiting for everything to be perfect could mean missing the optimal time to begin.
Most children start showing interest in the potty around age 2, but this can vary. Some may be ready as early as 18 months, while others might not be until they are nearly 3. Keep in mind, readiness signs are just one part of the equation—they’re a guide, not a strict rule.
Potty Training: The 40+ Skills to Learn
Potty training goes beyond merely waiting for your child to show interest in using the toilet. It involves a comprehensive process where your child needs to acquire a range of physical, cognitive, and emotional skills.
In fact, there are over 40 skills necessary to become fully potty trained, including:
Signs of toileting readiness:
• Informing you when their nappy is wet or soiled.
• Expressing interest in the potty or toilet.
• Remaining dry for extended periods.
• Seeking privacy when they need to wee/poo.
Other developmental indicators:
• A desire for independence.
• Communicating certain needs (verbally or nonverbally).
• Curiosity about where things go.
• Following simple instructions.
These are just some of the skills your child will develop during this journey. Potty training is a gradual process, and children learn through practice, encouragement, and guidance.
Why Teaching is Essential in Potty Training?
Potty training involves actively teaching rather than just waiting for readiness. Even with some signs of readiness, children still need guidance to learn the process. Here's how teaching is crucial:
• Learning Through Practice: Using the toilet is a new skill that requires practice. Children need to be familiar with sitting on the potty, recognise bodily signals, and understand where to go.
• Setting Clear Expectations: Children benefit from structure and guidance.
• Providing Positive Reinforcement: Accidents are part of the learning process. Remaining calm and supportive boosts their confidence.
• Introducing Skills Gradually: Potty training includes multiple steps. Breaking it down into manageable phases, like beginning with potty preparation, makes it less daunting for both you and your child.
Potty Training Is a Journey, Not a Waiting Game
The secret to successful potty training is not about waiting for everything to be perfect or expecting your child to master all 40+ skills immediately. It's about educating, guiding, and supporting your child as they gradually acquire these skills.
Each child develops at their own rate. While readiness signs can be useful indicators, they shouldn't be the only determining factor. By being patient, encouraging, and adaptable, you can assist your child in confidently reaching this significant milestone.
About Little Ones At Home
Hello, I’m Hayley, a Potty Training Specialist and the founder of Little Ones At Home. My child-centred approach provides parents with confidence and support throughout the potty training journey. Whether you're beginning or encountering difficulties, I'm here to help!
I offer two customised programs:
• Nappy to Happy: Support right from the start for a seamless and stress-free potty training experience.
• The Rescue Program: Created for those times when potty training becomes more challenging and complex.
Allow me to help you make potty training a positive experience for both you and your child.
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